Choosing a school for your child can feel like a big decision—especially if you’re exploring Montessori for the first time. With so many programs using the Montessori name, how do you know what’s truly aligned with the philosophy?
The good news? You don’t need to be a Montessori expert to make a confident choice. In this post, I’ll walk you through what to look for, what questions to ask, and how to trust your instincts along the way.
Montessori is more than a method—it’s a philosophy that sees children as capable, curious learners. Authentic Montessori environments focus on independence, hands-on learning, and respect for each child’s unique pace.
For example: In a Montessori classroom, a child might spend 30 minutes carefully spooning beans from one bowl to another. While it might look simple, they’re developing fine motor skills, focus, and confidence—all on their own terms.
For parents new to Montessori, The American Montessori Society provides an excellent overview of the philosophy.
Notice how teachers guide children. Do they encourage independence and treat children with respect?
Ask if the school follows authentic Montessori practices. Lead teachers should hold Montessori certifications from a MACTE-accredited program, as should some, if not all, of the administration.
Step into the classroom to observe. Look for:
Montessori schools use unique materials that encourage hands-on learning. Does the classroom have authentic Montessori materials? Ask how they teach subjects like math and reading. Does the school offer freedom of choice within clear limits?
Small groups are essential in Montessori classrooms. Ask about the number of children and teachers. Low student-to-teacher ratios ensure personalized attention for your child.
Each Montessori school has a distinct approach. Some emphasize outdoor learning, while others focus on cultural education or mindfulness. Visit the school to see if it matches your values.
Watch how the children behave. Are they focused, calm, and happy? Engaged and confident children are a sign of a strong program.
Montessori schools often involve parents. Ask about workshops, classroom observations, and communication. Collaboration between parents and teachers helps children thrive.
After visiting, trust your instincts. Ask yourself:
Choosing a Montessori school takes time, but it’s worth it. Look for a school that values your child’s individuality and inspires a love of learning.
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At Montessori Math Studio, we support families exploring Montessori education. Follow our blog for parenting and education tips or contact us for advice! Or, if you are looking for Montessori education in the Portland area, check out our in-person school, The Montessori Studio.
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